Should only have to do things once

Having to send emails 3 or 4 times is just wrong. One would assume that the  person asking you to do them a favor would give you the correct address first time.  Then he got pissy because he had to call these wineries again.  Then I asked what time we had to be there and he says where, we are presently consumed by this Wine Festival where else would we be going ???  Since this is all we talked about today and we discussed the meeting tonight, What the hell else would I be asking about.  We are leaving in two weeks for 6 weeks with only 2 wineys committed this doesn't look good.  I wonder when he will learn to keep his ideas to himself.  No food vendors set up, no music, no singer .  Let the fun begin.