Will someone, please, explain to me why the man in my life gets his nose out of joint because I don't jump at the suggestion we ride up to camp for the day!!! Coming home from church this morning he says what's on my agenda for today, nothing really.  Well lets ride up to camp, NO!! I have nothing ready to bring for your meals, and we all know how important it is for you to eat when it's convenient for you.. Ride for 2 hours only to spend a few hours there and turn around and come home.  I spent most of the day Saturday indoors because you had a clown thing.  Why not spend the weekend at camp.  Starting soon I'm going to go on the weekends with or without him.. At least Kevin spends time there.. Then there was last night, went to the Winery for a hamburger, had my glass of wind (a white wine slushy) so good sitting in the cool and he says lets sit outside.  OK I assume there is shade from the sun and maybe a breeze, not happening.  The sun on my back, he's in the shade bugs all over my burger, and I ask why we are sitting outside.  He gets pissed!!! You could have said you wanted to stay indoors, and I would have if I had known it would be this hot!!!! He is now asleep on the couch.  Will think of someplace to go this afternoon. I said I would  pack up and go to camp if he wanted to skip rehab tomorrow, that wouldn't do. Not like he hasn't missed before.  I give up!!!  Now I know why people get divorced after being married for so long. Tired of the BS!!! I'm not getting a divorce he can't get off that easy!!! Besides I know he won't move and I'm not moving again!!  Next weekend will be busy, and I'm looking forward to it. I may just go to camp tomorrow alone. I don't have anything going on till Wed. when I watch the girls. That will just piss him off some more!!! 

Stupid Husband!!!

I wish someone would explain to me why just because I don't want to cook a meal for 6 people, one of which is a gourmet cook, my husband if upset with me.  He went to England a few years ago and had a great meal now this couple is here in the states and he wants to have them here.  I had the guy for dinner the last time he was here, but now his girl friend is with him.  I really don't feel comfortable cooking for her, she is the gourmet.  His computer is down, and we can't find anyone to repair it, or get the info off it so we can buy a new one.  Honestly every time we have anyone over he jumps around like he is so busy and so helpful, when in fact he just gets in the way.  We all know he can't boil water, so the meal is all on me.  Guess I'm just getting old and grumpy!!! Besides he wants them to come on Wed. and I have an appt. for laser treatment on my face. Exactly when am I supposed to cook and get to the Dr. Unfortunately murder is still illegal in PA.  I keep saying we should go out to dinner, she can cook her own meals,