Will someone, please, explain to me why the man in my life gets his nose out of joint because I don't jump at the suggestion we ride up to camp for the day!!! Coming home from church this morning he says what's on my agenda for today, nothing really.  Well lets ride up to camp, NO!! I have nothing ready to bring for your meals, and we all know how important it is for you to eat when it's convenient for you.. Ride for 2 hours only to spend a few hours there and turn around and come home.  I spent most of the day Saturday indoors because you had a clown thing.  Why not spend the weekend at camp.  Starting soon I'm going to go on the weekends with or without him.. At least Kevin spends time there.. Then there was last night, went to the Winery for a hamburger, had my glass of wind (a white wine slushy) so good sitting in the cool and he says lets sit outside.  OK I assume there is shade from the sun and maybe a breeze, not happening.  The sun on my back, he's in the shade bugs all over my burger, and I ask why we are sitting outside.  He gets pissed!!! You could have said you wanted to stay indoors, and I would have if I had known it would be this hot!!!! He is now asleep on the couch.  Will think of someplace to go this afternoon. I said I would  pack up and go to camp if he wanted to skip rehab tomorrow, that wouldn't do. Not like he hasn't missed before.  I give up!!!  Now I know why people get divorced after being married for so long. Tired of the BS!!! I'm not getting a divorce he can't get off that easy!!! Besides I know he won't move and I'm not moving again!!  Next weekend will be busy, and I'm looking forward to it. I may just go to camp tomorrow alone. I don't have anything going on till Wed. when I watch the girls. That will just piss him off some more!!!